Friday 21 February 2014

Six Years in Business Part 4 – Getting out There – Networking for Introverts


Over the last six years we have tried just about every marketing technique in the book and spent a fair amount of time and money trying to find the ‘right way’. Of course, experienced folk will tell you that there is no one right way: it’s about ensuring that you are approaching your market from different angles with a range of strategies. As I’ve said in a previous blog, the relationship building process is key and an important part of that is getting out there and meeting people – networking. Now as someone who is fundamentally introverted (a classic ISFJ in Myers Briggs terms), this has been one of my biggest challenges. Fortunately Gill is an extrovert so we complement each other as business partners but it’s not about hand holding, as individuals we have had to establish ourselves as credible professionals in the marketplace. So, how can we introverts ‘get out there’ and maximise networking as part of our marketing tool kit? I love the points made in Dave Roos’s  ‘How Stuff Works’ article (link below) with lots of great tips to make networking not just bearable but enjoyable too.

I’m sure my fellow introverts will find something that resonates for them but for me there are four particularly valuable points in this article that I have found helpful:

Volunteer – be part of the event, have a role to play to occupy your mind and give you a specific reason to interact with other participants

Arrive early – entering a room full of people can be very daunting. Pre empting this makes it easier to establish eye contact with others as they arrive. Lingering at the coffee can be a good way to break the ice.

Magic number – setting a goal for the number of new contacts you want to meet is a good idea.  On a broader level plan your strategy - who is likely to be there, from where, who would you like to meet, and who might introduce you?

Be interested – smiling is such a simple and easy thing to do and engages people. No matter who else might come in the door maintain interest in the person you are speaking to through eye contact and positive body language. Have some questions up your sleeve that will help you find out about the person you are talking to.

Let me know what works for you, I’d love to hear from you.

Dorothy

Northampton

21 February 2014

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